Me Amore-not really sure if that means 'my love', but that's what I was going for

Well, MaryBeth didn't tag me to do this, but I saw it on her blog and thought it was really cute so I'm doing it anyway! :) (hope that's okay MaryBeth) And for those of you who just know me, maybe this will help you get to know Bobby a little better!


What is your husbands name? James Robert Bricker...aka Bobby
How long have you been together? Well we've been married since July 2004
How long did you date? Hmmm...we still argue about when we "officially" started dating, but since I'm the one filling this out I get to put what I think and that was Dec. of 2003, so about 8mo. (engaged for 1.5 of those 8 mo.) We met the first weekend in Oct. 2003 at a meeting for work.
Who eats more? Well, more at one time-Bobby. More often-me.
Who said I love you first? I know this is really sad, but I can't remember. I'm almost positive it was me b/c I couldn't believe how fast I was falling in love with him.
Who is taller? Bobby
Who sings better? I think we're pretty equally bad
Who is smarter? Bobby; in almost every category. He knows more random facts than anybody I know and more about cars and computers than most mechanics and computer engineers. In a wierd way, it makes me feel very safe.
Whose temper is worse? Wow, mine! I don't think Bobby has a temper.
Who does the laundry? I do
Who does the dishes? Both of us. Bobby will always help unload and wash the dishes whenever he's home, we usually just do it together.
Who sleeps on the right side of the bed? I do-which has recently worked out for my benefit! When Amanda moved in we had to move our bedroom furniture around to fit more stuff in, so my side of the bed is pushed up against the wall so I have to crawl off the bed to get out, so Bobby gets up with Tyler during the night since he's closer to the door.
Who pays the bills? He does. I used to, but when I was pregnant with Tyler I was so sick I couldn't even get off the couch so thankfully he took over and has just kept doing it ever since.
Who mows the lawn? HOA
Who cooks dinner? I do. Except on the weekend when we get to go out!!
Who drives when you are together? Bobby
Who is more stubborn? I think Bobby. Usually he always gets his way b/c he makes me laugh about whatever it is that we're arguing about until I see that he's right or until I run out of things to argue back with-he could go forever because he's very clever. He's so funny!
Who is the first to admit when they are wrong? What?! Bobby can be wrong?!
Whose parents do you see the most? Well since my parents live in the same state and unfortunately his live far away in Missouri we see mine more often. (not unfortunately I see mine more, just unfortunate that his live far away!:)
Who kissed who first? This is probably the funniest story that we have! He DEFINATELY kissed me first. We were at my apartment in Provo and we'd been hanging out for about a month and he was getting ready to leave for the night (we had just finished watching a movie) and I could SO tell that he wanted to kiss me, but I SO did NOT want him to kiss me so I was purposefully avoiding his eyes as if to say,"DO NOT KISS ME". But Bobby was either to nervous to notice or didn't care (he claims he didn't care) because he leaned down and kissed me anyway! I thought the whole thing was hilarious because I was thinking, "who in the world would kiss someone who was so pointedly sending out the vibe-Don't Touch Me! Wow, this kid really has some balls!" So in the middle of the kiss I started to laugh. And not like little chuckles, like hearty, belly-hurting laughs! He was SO offended he turned around and walked out the door without saying anything to me and did not call me or answer my calls for a whole week! He didn't know this at the time, but I wasn't laughing at him, I was just laughing at the situation b/c it really was so funny! He still gets upset whenever we talk about this story!
Who asked who out? It was kind of a mutual thing. We were driving back from afore-mentioned work meeting and were talking about things we'd never done. He said he'd never eaten at Cafe Rio (honestly-who has never had cafe rio-well for those who live in UT. It's like #1 date spot to eat dinner) and I said I'd never seen some movie that I can't remember now, so we agreed to watch the movie and then go to Cafe Rio together. But he's the one that called me a couple days later to schedule the date, so I guess technically it was him, although I think I made it pretty easy for him.
Who proposed? Bobby-twice. Another funny, long story!
Who is more sensitive? So me! I've only seen Bobby cry once in the entire 4 years I've known him. (has to do with afore-mentioned proposal story)
Who has more friends? It's pretty equal since we have the same friends.
Who wears the pants in the family? Who wears pants when you can wear nothing?!